We are here to support you
Divorce is a confusing time filled with untraveled paths that often seem dark, scary …. and endless.
There are so many questions to answer:
“How do I even begin to find an attorney?”
“How will my children handle divorce?”
“How will I support two households?”
“Will I have to go back to work?”
We are Divorce and Mediation Coaches and can help you break down all of your questions into manageable pieces so that you can create clarity out of the chaos of divorce. Our goal is to help you work through the confusion, the uncertainty, the hurt and to come out the other end with the clarity of knowing who you are and what you want out of this next stage of your life.
Services
Divorce Coaching
Wherever you are on your divorce path, from contemplation to completion and beyond, I’m here to support you through the process. During our sessions, my goal is to make this often confusing, frustrating and often emotional process more manageable by helping you focus on what you can control. For those things you can’t control, I’m here to assist you in finding your center, staying true to your values, and maintaining your dignity, grace and integrity in times of high conflict and stress. I will work with you to build a divorce support team that will provide you with all the knowledge you need so that you can eliminate the fear of the unknown and focus on creating a divorce outcome that will allow you to thrive post-divorce.
Divorce Mediation Coaching
For many people entering into divorce mediation, this will be their first introduction to the mediation process. As a Mediation Coach I help you understand the mediation process and teach you how to become your own advocate. Through our work together you will gain clarity on what you need, establish goals, and learn how to present your positions confidently. We will craft an opening statement together, as well as create a guiding principle that will help to keep you focused on what is important. As your Coach, we will meet before and/or after each of your mediation sessions to review and analyze what occurred, then discuss strategies for the next session.
Child Centered Parenting Plans
A parenting plan is your roadmap to co-parenting, so it is incredibly important to make sure your plan is detailed and clear. It is often the lack of detail and clarity that creates unnecessary conflict between co-parents and ultimately negatively impacts your children. We will work together to craft a parenting plan where all the parties can thrive. The plan will detail how you and your co-parent will work together to raise your children and address issues like how extracurricular activities will be handled, when your child/ren should get a cell phone, who will handle the medical/dental appointments, etc. Just as importantly, the plan will address how you will resolve issues in which you cannot come to agreement so that you can avoid any future unnecessary litigation.
Our Story
When life spins well beyond your hopes and dreams for your marriage, family life, personal and career aspirations, it can be incredibly challenging to find your center and path toward a new journey. We have experienced this feeling as well. We are not alone. The good news is everyone can rediscover exactly where they are, where they need to go and how to get there. We can help you get to the other side of this process and begin the next phase of your journey.
As certified Divorce Coaches, Divorce Mediators and Co-Parenting specialists, we have professionally invested in helping individuals navigate beyond their original hopes and dreams and pivot toward a new reality that embraces greater insight, knowledge and peace. Your Divorce Advocate was created out of a deep desire to help individuals focus on maintaining their balance, provide knowledge and insight and support them and their family through an often disorienting and emotional experience. Personally, we are motivated and invested in supporting others because we have experienced these challenges individually and as a couple and know the impact and chaos it can create in your life. Through our professional training and vast network of resources, we can help answer questions around the divorce process, manage the process with you, provide expert resources and define how your post-divorce life can be realigned in a healthy and productive path forward. As Your Divorce Advocate, we will provide you the support, insights and peace of mind to help work through these new realities with a greater sense of control and knowledge toward a productive and peaceful outcome.
As a true passion, Kelly specializes in and trains other professionals in Co-Parenting strategies in concert with Divorce Coaching. Based on her own experiences and collaborating with other thought leaders in Co-Parenting and Divorce, she has special insights into the many variables in working together for the benefit of the children in a post-divorce world. Jim also has a deep passion for supporting individuals who are trying to balance their professional careers and the challenges and demands of the divorce process. As someone who felt the pressure and stress of trying to meet the needs of everyone involved, he specializes in developing options to manage the unique demands of family, a busy career and the balance required to sustainable operate in a new reality.
We operate collaboratively with other professionals and invest hundreds of hours annually to ensure they are always informed and trained on the latest insights, support tools, certifications to ensure our clients receive as many options they need to leverage our knowledge and network in managing their experience in a post-divorce environment. We believe divorce can be managed more effectively with the right partner who is focused on providing knowledge, tools and a productive plan to navigate divorce and build toward a new life experience.
Contact us for a FREE 30 minute Discovery Coaching Session to get an understanding of your needs and how I can be of help to you. I will get back to you within 24 hours or less.
Contact Your Divorce Advocate
Contact me to receive a FREE 30 minute Discovery Coaching Session or call 1-858-276-0899
If you don’t reach me, please leave a message and I will return your call in 24 hours or less.
